I am in the process of drafting a new post about - Focusing on what you want. I am using a new method of posting and have not fine-tuned my use and have unfortunately prematurely published again. Expect this post later this week when it is ready for you!
Discovering your inner truth about who you are and what you want becomes the most efficient fuel for leading you into the life you deeply desire. Telling your story, especially the difficult parts is an essential aspect to being able to put your inner assets into practice in your life today, rather than being limited by an old story that no longer serves or fuels your life. Learn to tell your story and free your soul, then you will feel able to create the quality of life your being longs for...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t_VcG2XIgb4 My sister and co-writer at Focusing Inward shares her top 2 masterful habits that create a life of inner peace and comfort.
Part 2 of my interview with two women who have boldly stepped up to a new beginning and courageously faced their inner fears to risk beginning anew.
I highly recommend this workshop if you are in the Richmond area. Margaret's presentations are always valuable. For anyone with family struggles, I recommend this as well. Seeing through the lens of a team process when you are faced with challenges in family life and married life can help move the process into more successful territory!
It is a time of saying goodbye in my life. Good bye to the man I have spent 20 years with and still love dearly even though we have divorced, to family members - my daughter and mother, two of my best friends, to a business I love and built with great joy, to a home I cherish and have cared for 10 years and to many dear friends and clients I have come to care for and love over the years I have lived here in Maine. My heart aches and I shed tears regularly. No matter how ready and excited I am to move to a new state and create a new home and business, make new friends, be near family I love and have missed dearly, this time of ending, saying goodbye and leaving, is probably one of the more painful experiences in my life. The decision to end my life here and move has been a long process that was not experienced lightly. This is a grieving process that I am moving through gently and carefully, as I make decisions about how to move onward. During this period I have experienced a reoccurrence of the anxiety that had calmed. This is because the major life changes I am experiencing means facing fears that I have avoided in the safe world in which I had been living. Part of me wants to remain "safe", go back to what I know. But that means settling for a life that is not true to my heart and soul. I choose to head forward.
The return of anxiety has felt so frustrating and aggravating at times. I have wanted to say, “Never mind, this is too hard.” Thank goodness for all my past hard work and I am able to recognize fear for what it is. An emotion to be allowed, considered and moved through and beyond, to a place of calm again. That is what I am doing while using my breathing, my times of quiet, prayer and supportive conversations with trusted others.
There are occasions when it is easier to connect with the visualizations I am creating about my future. Other days are filled with the practical tasks of closing out the old life and there is little mind energy for anything other than a good cry. And that’s okay as I do the best I can in this brand new situation.
These conscious good byes are not easy or smooth by any means. I continue because I feel guided by something greater than me. I am able to connect with that certain “knowing within” because I have spent time with the truth and myself and have learned how to listen to wisdom when it comes. As I now move forward, connecting to knowing what is right for me, the ability to follow my chosen Path, comes more easily. This is a huge leap of trust and faith I am taking … that’s what it is all about right now!
I will continue with my good byes until the moving truck rolls down the road. I will continue to let my tears come and cleanse my aching heart. And little by little - or in leaps and bounds - I will welcome the excitement and joy that is easing it’s way into my being. There is a new normal, a different balance to be found in the way I am living. For anyone making a major life change, as I am, I hope you are being kind and loving towards yourself. Both the mind and body deserve to be honored as they are progressing towards a new beginning while letting go of the past.